Have you ever asked yourself:
What really stops you from getting what you want?
Usually one of three things. The goal was never yours. Something in you quietly fights it. Or nothing around you is built for it.
Reason 1
It isn't yours.
Some goals are borrowed: from parents, partners or a feed. With no real want underneath, nothing gets done.
Reason 2
Something in you fights it.
The want is real, but a hidden commitment pulls the other way, like staying safe or not being judged. All your effort cancels itself out.
Reason 3
Nothing is built for it.
Your routines, surroundings and people are set up for the old you. Intention carries the load, and intention rarely lasts.
Research
Decades of psychology show that how you see yourself shapes what you attempt, what you finish and what you think you deserve. A few of the patterns Becoming looks for:
Impostor Syndrome
Most Common
You feel like a fraud who'll be found out, however much you've achieved.
Present bias
You overvalue what's available now and undervalue the version of you who arrives later.
Spotlight effect
You think others notice and judge you far more than they actually do.
No two people start from the same place. Becoming reads your answers across five areas of life to find the one pattern holding the rest in place.
Who you're becoming
03
Publishes one piece of work a week, finished or not.
v1
Account manager at Vogue
v2
Couture assistant at Inditex
v3
Founder & Creative Director of your own brand
Accountability
04
Every Friday, one piece goes public before 6pm.
How it works
Becoming shows you who you are now, and gives you a plan to become who you want to be.
You have one honest conversation. You get a clear read. You work from there: not from a wish, and not from another burst of effort.
Your conversation
About 20 min of questions
About who you are now, across Health, Wealth, Wisdom, Social and Purpose, and where your effort keeps dying.
Your read
The pattern of your life
Who you are now and who you're becoming, and a plan from this week to five years out. All in one place.
Your practice
A personal plan
Around your real routine in the hard days, and a quarterly Review that measures what actually changed.
IN THEIR WORDS
I want to become a recognised
Creative Director
within
and start my own
Fashion Brand
and
Atelier
to redefine
athleisure
with a revenue of
$100k-$500k
.
FAQ's
Still have doubts? Straight answers.
Isn’t the point to just be yourself?
You already are. You are also already changing. Most people just let the room decide who they become. This is the same thing, done on purpose.
Is this therapy?
How is this different from a coach or a habit app?
What do I get?
Who is Becoming for?
How long until I see results?
How secure is my personal data?
Can I cancel?